Sunday, June 14, 2009

A unique request

The boys decided last night that I need 4 arms so that I can do more things at one time...like scratch both of their backs at the same time. "Like General Grievous without the stabby things."

I'll get right on that.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

The same, but different

LOL. Another update due.

Our June 10 court date was, you guess it, postponed. It's now set for July 1. I pretty much feel like I'm going to be married to S forever at this point.

Kids finished out school....L ended up with a C in Science, but I couldn't be happier, considering his previous grades. T and I have had some really good talks and has shown great signs of improving. Things are good with them.

My man and I are back together. We can't seem to stay apart for long.

My friend M got married recently (we lived together with all 4 of our boys when we separated from our husbands). This was initially very hard for me. Although my divorce is not final, I've been separated nearly 2 years, and have thought a lot about my relationship future. Sometimes I miss the family unit thing...and sometimes I revel in my singlemomdom. But I went through a bit of a funk when she told me she was getting married. I was/am so happy for her; she and her guy are a great couple...but my heart ached a little because all of a sudden I wanted to move forward too. I got over it pretty quickly, thankfully. I realized that I need to enjoy these relatively selfish days with my boys, where I rule the roost and can have fish sticks and noodles for dinner if that's what we want. Or watch WWE 3 times a week on the main TV. Or spend as much time on facebook as I wanna. Not such a bad life. :) For a little while, anyway.